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Friendship day comes every year and we celebrate this day with zeal and vigour with dearest friends. In my opinion we should celebrate this day whole year with same feelings.
But many of us face betrayal in friendship and the scars always remain deep inside our hearts.
Sometimes we meet people who are evil from inside. They destroy our inner peace with their devilish acts. Wrong choices can lead us to a difficult path.
Our elders always preach to make good friends with whom you can learn the art of living life. But I have seen many friends who change with time and situation.
Who is the real culprit in making your relationship bitter?
Today I am sharing a real story with you to make you realise the importance of maturity in friendship. Friendship is the only relation which all of us make by choice.
I am a very straight forward and honest person and because of this habit I have faced difficulties in handling my relationships with friends.
Suhani was my dear friend. I have always treated her as my little sister. I pampered her and tried to solve every problem of her life.
One fine day I called her and she did not pick my phone. This happened for about one week. I was disturbed. I asked another friend Sonia who lives in the same society about Suhani's health. She promised me to convey my message to Suhani. Sonia was my best friend from many years. I completely trust her.
After few days suspense was revealed. I came to know that Suhani is angry and hurt with my behaviour. I tried to recall everything and remembered that I had discussed some problems of Suhani in a positive way with Sonia. No body else know anything about this. Meanwhile Suhani stopped talking to me and removed me from social media sites.
Her behaviour hurt me because I know that whatever I had said in past was my concern about her. But she never tried to understand my love for her. In her opinion I destroyed her inner peace by sharing her problems with Sonia.
Days passed and I came to know that Suhani is talking ill about me to some common friends. Sonia did not reveal this truth to me. I discussed the whole episode to another friend Prakriti.
After much chaos I understood and learnt the lesson to not to discuss personal matters with any of my friends.
I am nobody to guide any of them. All are mature enough to take decisions of their lives. I got hurt after knowing the bitter fact that Sonia was behind the scene who wrongly interpreted Suhani about my behaviour. Prakriti handed over recordings to Suhani in which I was angrily talking about her changed behaviour.
Friendship broke after this mess and all of us are compelled to live life with heavy hearts.
Question remains the same. Who is the culprit?
I was over concerned, Suhani over trusted me, Sonia could not keep the secret and in an emotional discussion revealed everything, Prakriti was misguided by Suhani to save their relationship. Suhani talked ill because she was feeling hurt by my behaviour.
It's up to you to decide the villain of the story.
My motive was to make you understand life's truth. No matter how good friends we are, never interfere in personal matters. Do not break your friend's trust. If Sonia would have played a mature role in this story many relationships could have been saved. I should not open my mouth in anger state. I was hurt by Suhani's nature and talked about her with Prakriti. All females do this in some way or the other. We keep on talking about others but don't want to change our bad behaviour.
Suhani is not innocent too. She was provoked by others to think bad about me. She misjudged me and my love for her. She has a habit of judging others by their expensive gifts. I completely dislike this habit. I wanted to correct her wisdom. But in a stupid manner I talked to Prakriti and spoiled my relationship.
Suhani and Prakriti were friends. Suhani disliked Prakriti's nature and discussed her weak points with us. We always gave her good advise. But when everything came out Prakriti was misguided by Suhani to save their relationship or to make my relationship sour with her. Discussions and dialouges can never make your relationship strong.
Most important thing is trust in any relationship. Never judge any person by the opinion of others.
May be I am wrong but Suhani should remember my good deeds. She did not understand my emotions. Prakriti should always see the truth with her own eyes. Sonia should not back stab me.
Friends are like diamonds. We are born in different families and come together to share life's ups and downs. But we don't understand our responsibilities towards each other.
Gossiping is a good time pass for females but in an entangled relationship, everyone should be responsible. If one friend is doing wrong then others should make her realise. But if you choose to do back biting about other friends, you lose good friends forever.
I was not given a chance to show my positive side. But if this type of situation occurs in your life, talk and sort out your problems with friends. Don't let them go.
They can be bad or good sometimes but they really care for you. Try to remove your bad habits and erase hatred.
Friends are forever. Make this day beautiful and enjoy to the fullest.
Happy friendship day to all of you.

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